And so it begins

Last night Sandy was teasing me, rubbing my cock, telling me, in a very husky turned on voice, how much sex she is getting, and im not!

This morning we woke up, had a long hug in each others arms and a bit of a tease, for both of us. Lovely way to start the day.. Then...

OMG! She got up and as she started to get washed ordered me to get things ready. Ive just put fresh sheets on the bed, shaved her pussy smooth, laced her into her waspie and left the house ready for her lover to come and join her. I was told to lick her pussy and her ass to check they were smooth enough. They were, perfectly. They also tasted great, aroused and arousing. Before I left she made me kneel down, locked up my cock and as I knelt she told me she loves me on my knees. Her tone said she loves it a lot. Made my heart skip a beat!

Im a bit horny now...

I have found the holy grail

A year passed. Winter changed into Spring. Spring changed into Summer. Summer changed back into Winter. And Winter gave Spring and Summer a miss and went straight on into Autumn. Until one day...

A ring, a ring shalt thou have in thine holiest of holyies. Therein to reside the one they call Prince Albert. Verily shall his presence command the masses, the lowly peniletry, his lowly subject.

And so It came to pass that the prince took up residence, subjugating his peniletry with the aid of his trusty polycarbonate ring of power, magiked into being by the great miller.

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So five chastity belts later, home made 1, cb2000, cb6000, neosteel sport, and now pa5000. Finally I have found my grail. I've worn the pa5000 5 days non stop so far, and apart from a very very slight tenderness in the piercing now and then it's been totally comfortable. Not a hint of pain except when I'm absolutely fully erect and at my very hardest.. Then it starts to feedback enough to calm me down. Even the night-time wood does not wake me. And I'm a very light sleeper! The sleep problem was one of the things thats stopped the cb6000 working for me.

I came with it the first night after my ass fucking. I was horny, sandy asleep and after a long time trying I just barely managed to tip over the edge. It hurt so fucking much I will never never do that again, there was no pleasure there.

I conclude then that it is effective, makes it very hard to touch myself, almost impossible to get to the point of Cumming as the feedback gets intense when close, and nobody would want that orgasm twice! I can sleep, ride a motorcycle, play sport, it's very easy to clean and I can even at a push pee standing up. Yet it's constant reminder that I can't cum, that sandy has the key.

I have found the holy grail. Problem is sandy has no intention to let me out yet :) she released me tonight for a long tease and a blow job, and to make her cum. That's six orgasms this week for her, famine to feast! I was then relocked and she hid the key before sending me to hang out the laundry and give her a foot rub.. I have no idea if I will be let out soon but she is enjoying her new found power for now, as am!

Finally the right belt for me, fantastic!

Arse fucking as therapy?

As if to put the lie to my last post this morning brought probably the best sex I've had in a long while, and the first time for a while I've been on the receiving end of things...

Sandy and I woke up after a boozy and fun night with friends, lazing about in bed and talking about the problems we've been having. Though the conversation was a little uncomfortable at times it was caring on both sides, unlike the last few days. The conversation did not last too long and made us both feel a bit closer.

Cue a little more lazing around and then, no idea why, we starting talking about her fucking me with the strap on. It was obvious it's been two weeks since she had cum as within a minute of this talk she was feeling horny at the thought of taking me that way. I snuggled up closer and whispered in her ear imagine doing that while I was locked in my cock cage, unable to cum while she took me anally. As I said this I teased her pussy gently, and only momentarily. Her response was immediate and unequivocal... 'go and do it now!'

Eh? I wasn't expecting that. I was hard as a rock, I looked at her unsure and she stared me down, Now! She repeated. Get my cock into a cock tube? Yes mistress. I took myself and my tube to the bathroom where I stood under a stone cold shower hoping it would achieve the impossible, the last thing I had seen as I left was my wife's beautiful long legs splayed and her hand sliding up and down her wet slit. My mind kept casting back to that, and what was about to happen. It was a long shower!

I got back to the bedroom with a semi flaccid cock locked in a chastity belt, semi lasted about 2 seconds after I entered the room finding her still spread wide and teasing herself slowly and gently. My hairless submissive looking locked cock Immediately sprang to full (and slightly uncomfortable) hardness and I jumped in bed, crushing my body against hers and teasing her very hot slit with my fingers. Another surprise, she was impatient, desperate for her fantasy to become real. I had barely touched her when she ordered me to get the strap on and her pretty jewelled butt plug. I hesitated, lying on top of her and enjoying the feeling of her skin and breasts against my body, again finding myself surprised as seconds later she said 'Now!' with a don't waste any more time sternness. I did as I was told immediately.

By the time I found the toys she was on all fours, her finger buried between her now very red and swollen labia and her ass exposed waiting for the plug. My tongue went straight to her hole, tasting her pussy then pushing deep into her ass for a few seconds before her demand for me to plug her was repeated. The pretty cold steel plug slipped in so easily, a quick intake of breath at it's widest point and then a low moan as it's cold weight buried inside her made it's presence felt. I could smell her all over my mouth and hands. Wasting no time she got up and slipped the strap on harness on, a pretty leather pair of panties with a Brazilian rear, a thin strap that buries between her pussy lips, and the pink large cock at the front. unable to help myself I leaned in and sucked her cock deep. I love sucking her cock, last time she liked it too, forcing it deep and pressing my head in. This time she let me suck her down twice maybe before again, impatiently, lustfully told me to get on my hands and knees..

It's a big cock, the head popped in painlessly but as soon as she started moving it began to hurt, and I knew the widest part was yet to come. I didn't expect then, that a few thrusts later, as I lay face down on the bed with my arse raised, that she would start moaning like a woman drowning in desire and pressing her pussy against my arse, whispering in my ear how hungry my slutty hole is, that ive taken the whole length in already. I had. I could feel her cool pussy against my arse, it felt sublime... I was moaning like an animal, my arms spread, locked cock grinding against the bed, she was now thrusting in and out hard and fast, forcefully, slapping my arse hard now and then. Pushing my face down into the bed with her hand on the back of my neck, talking so fucking dirty, how I was a slut, she was fucking her slut husband up the arse and using him, debasing him, so dirty. Her butt plug was moving inside her with every thrust as she pounded me. She was on fire, her breasts were rubbing against my back and she leant in with a few especially forcefully thrusts and told me how she was violating me and had my cock locked, no orgasm, just an arse fucking, so so dirty....

Perhaps 10 minutes of this went on, I loved every second, groaning the whole time, when suddenly she lent back, kneeling up, her cock deep deep in my arse, if I could touch myself now I'd come, she said. Do it! I replied and quickly heard her whimpering as her fingers found their way into the front of her leather panties. I craned my neck around, seeing, just out of the corner of my eye, this beautiful dominant woman, naked, pert breasts heaving, her hand in her panties playing, her hips tight against me filling me with her big cock, occasionally thrusting deeper to keep me violated as she took her pleasure. She came heaving, almost screaming, pounding into me a few times for extra stimulation, then slowing down her thrusts as she came down from her cum, lying over my back and relaxing, still deep inside me.

She lay there perhaps five minutes and I, my cock, ached for her with the force of her orgasm..

I was of course expected to give her another orgasm a short while later, for sandy they always come in twos or threes. My own pleasure was not even considered. She wanted me denied, it had enhanced her pleasure.. As I write this I'm still locked.

Holy fuck, I've missed this, and the way she spoke about it she had missed fucking me, had been wanting to do it for a while. I felt about as submissive, as taken, as put in my place as a man can ever feel, lying beneath her, my own wife, my cock locked and my lack of orgasm used as a tool for her pleasure, my arse penetrated, slapped. Her animalistic approach to taking from me what she needed, feeding off my responses and my lust, using me, driving me down deep into the space I needed to reconnect and feel loved.

How to make a metal pa-5000 ring

So as promised a quick tutorial on how to convert a standard ring for a prince Albert to lock in a pa-5000 chastity tube.

First buy a horseshoe ring with a diameter that fits your cock head comfortably. The pa is under some strain when you get hard anyway, you don't want to exacerbate that with a ring that's too small for you cock when it grows hard. The gauge should be whatever You are happy wearing. My advice is not to go below 2.4mm as the smaller the gauge can cut more easily (cheesewire effect). You might get away with 1.6mm though.

Make sure that one of the balls on the end of the ring is screw on, and as large as possible. Don't get an internally threaded ring, the external ones are easier to find and stronger.

Buy or borrow a dremel. Make sure you have a grinding wheel and some cut-off wheels. Also you need a good metal vice.

Now clamp the ring in the vice tight! Make sure one of the balls is attached tight and sticking out above the vice. Use some thin card to protect the ring from the vice. This is going in your cock you do not want microabrasions on the metal that either cut you or provide a home for bacteria. What I mean is put card either side of the ring before you clamp the vice.

Starting with the grinding wheel you want to flatten off the front and back of the ball. Note that they are not parallel but slightly angled in. Make sure you do both sides evenly so you have room to grind a slot later without reaching the screw in the middle of the ball. Also be careful of the relative angle the ring comes out of the ball. That decides how steep or shallow it enters your pa. Use the plastic rings as a template!!

Use water to keep the metal cool if you need to, and keep taking it from the vice and trying in the chastity tube until it is a nice fit. It should end up deep in the lock hole with none of the ball protruding from the hole.

Now it gets a bit harder. With it in the hole turn the lock hard until it leaves a tiny mark on the flat surface of the ball. Use some ink on it if that helps. You need to know where to cut the slot for the lock.

Get your cut off wheels. Depending on thickness you may need 2-3 of them to match the thickness of the locking slot in the plastic ring. Put these on the dremel and you now have a thick wheel that can be used to grind a slot in the flat surface of the ball. Start slow, get the position right! Wear eye protection! Regularly trying the ring in the tube to make sure the slot is correrly placed, and that you don't go deeper than needed. Too deep and you will cut off the threads inside the ball. Eventually you will have a ball with two flat sides, a horizontal slot, it fits nice and snug in the tube and locks in place.

Finally smooth off any sharp edges.

During this process I found that the ball often unscrewed as I ground it. Tighten it up when you need. Once it's a bit flat you can put it against the flat top of the vice to stop further spinning. At the end tighten the ball until the slot is in the right direction to fit the pa-5000 with the ring protruding forwards. Again use the plastic ring as a template.

Last step. Cut off the other end of the horseshoe to a length you prefer. Round off the sharp edge well, this is going to go through your pa regularly it needs to be round, not square and definitely not sharp!! Maybe use a nail file to further smooth the metal until you can't feel any roughness.

Now wash it well and put it on. Hand over the key and be afraid. This baby can't easily be snapped off!

Coming to America!

I might be coming to New York soon on business. Anyone want a visit?

I mentioned to sandy that I might be traveling for a few days soon. Her first half joking comment was about having her lover over. Her second totally serious one was about locking me in the new chastity belt, the Pa-5000 while I'm gone. She is a bad but fun puppy.

Yes that might be possible. I went up a gauge today, to the thickness of the pa-5000 ring. Another month to get used to it and I might just be on a traveling lock up.

My god it hurt. It hurt much more than the piercing itself. We had to stop halfway for me to get used to it and at that point the thick end looked very thick indeed! But it got done and its fine now, just a bit tender.

M

Piercing progress

Enough of this perverse cuckold talk, I'm not a kinky fuck like you just tell me how the piercing is going. Oh OK, better give you all an update.

Its healing well. Last bit of spotting was about nine days after the piercing. I'm doing my usual 20 mile a day cycle commute, have been for three days, with no problems. I do wrap it while I cycle to protect it, but the rest of the day it hangs loose. It got little infected a few days ago, I think. Pretty minor but I believe I had not been salt bathing it enough, some days only once. Its hard to fit in when you have work and kids and don't wasn't them seeing what you are up to. So the last three days its been three long, 10+ minute soaks three times a day. The minor red swelling and slight soreness seems to be fading. All good.

I am desperate to try out the chastity tube but its way too soon to even slip the sleeve on, I'm just to sensitive and will probably set back the healing process. But damn I don't want to wait!

I have done my first standing up pee while standing almost over a toilet. It succeeded but I had to literally stand over the bowl, not possible over a urinal. The problem was the flow following the ring. I am still convinced it will be doable once I can manipulate the ring to where I want it, again this waits me being fully healed.

Finally sandy has decided she does not especially like how it looks as it is too big and would prefer a banana bar. I also prefer a bar though I like this ring too. She is still getting used to it though, she is always one for taking her time getting used to things. She used to dislike me shaved and now much prefers it, same with herself. So i am pretty sure she will end up liking it. She is certainly looking forward to being able to play with it lock me up with it.

Peeing with a PA

So I was asked about peeing with the PA. I confess it was of concern to me as well. First off read this article about the (few) medical problems with this piercing that was originally linked by Tom which I found of interest, in the British Medical Journal. It states that relatively few men (25%) have changes in urinary flow. Of these the common seem to be either a little dripping from the extra hole or the stream running wild because of the ring.

This is my opinion on the matter.

The first isnt a problem, just cover the hole with your finger.

The second is, I think, because the flow follows the curve of the ring and shoots right back at ya. I find mine only follows it a short way then breaks off and goes into the toilet. I think it better when you are pissing with some force as at the end of your visit when it slows it can roll around a bit further and drip down. However make sure the ball isn't near where the flow is or it breaks the whole stream up into an uncontrollable spray. Rotate it so the ball is right below your cock near the piercing hole.

I think I could use a urinal although I would stand that bit closer and with my legs apart just in case those drops got to me. More likely though I will once healed change the whole thing for a banana bar which I suspect will have less of a problem. I must caveat this, ive not tried it standing yet as i'm not healed enough so i am guessing based on how it flows when i am sat down.

Hope this helps!
M

Day 6-7 with the ring

I've spent the last 24 hours pretty much free of any kind of spotting, even when I pleasured sandy last night (no fucking mind you just hands) during the point i was hardest i had only a drop or two. Nothing during nighttime wood. Nothing today at work. I'm hanging loose and enjoying the feeling!

Sorry for those grossed out by discussions of blood or piercing but there is precious little out there on the pa-5000, and what I've read about the pa piercing itself suggests that most men don't bleed much but some do. Sadly none that did wrote about it so I was left wondering how much is normal. I was the drippier end of the scale so decided to add my experience to the table for others who are interested.

Anyway I can now get hard and hang free. Tomorrow I will try my 20 mile cycle commute again.

Incidentally I've been without an orgasm for over a week now and damn it's driving me crazy again.

M

Piercing progress

Day 6. It's taken 4 days for it to stop bleeding lots. That is I've needed to keep it wrapped for that time to stop it getting in my clothing. Days 5 and 6 it's ok but if the rings spins in it's place it can set it off again. Alcohol the other night seemed make it worse. Does it thin the blood?

Almost no pain though. A little discomfort.

Apparently after 3-4 weeks it should be healed enough to stretch a size up. That will fit the ring from the pa-5000.

I like it still.

M

pa-5000 first review

I decided to try it before I get pierced. If it's obviously uncomfortable I won't bother investing time and hope into it.

So far I'm very impressed. I've had it on two nights and two days consecutively. It's been extremely comfortable, barely know it's there. I can cycle with it with no change to the seat position or riding style. This is even in a racing position. At night I've not been woken by it at all, unlike trapped ball devices. When waking with a hard on, especially a night time ultra solid one, I find it slightly uncomfortable. This is due to it compressing a ring around my cock, my head swells out the end and skin out of the sides. It's not enough to wake me though.

I wonder if oedema might be a problem. This morning when it was at it's worst I took it off to see, but within 10 minutes the cock was back to normal, no residual swelling left. Long term remains to be seen but I'm hopeful. Worst case is I go up a size but since I'm a grower that would make it too loose when soft.

Security is hard to tell. The head is free so you can touch yourself, but close to orgasm when I swell up to the max it gets painful enough to put me off. I could cum in it by only when horny and it would not be very satisfying I think. This is without the piercing ring. The ring will draw my frenum closer to the cage, and this is my sweet spot. Without being able to touch that I think cumming will be harder still, though I suspect not impossible. Rubbing your shaft is useless as the device clamps on once you are erect. So it's very comfortable and impossible to escape from without breaking the device. You can cum but I think rarely and they won't be too pleasant. Certainly no fucking.

On the plus side enough cock is exposed for mistress to tease me and enjoy the feel of her cock without removing it. For her this is a 'Good Thing'!

I like it a lot so far. Won't know how the piercing affects it for months though, as it will need to heal and stretch to take the thick gauge rings.

The chastity belt picture

I'm trying it on to get used to it. Piercing will happen next week I think.

What do you think, does it look good?