Monday, 22 December 2014

And another little exchange

This morning I was asking my Sandy to pleasure me. This is what followed...

What will you do for me?

I'll make you coffee and give you an orgasm.

Is that all?

I'll let you keep having an open marriage.

#laughs# If I want to I'll do that anyway!


Yes, I think our marriage is strong enough.

Friday, 19 December 2014

Some random comments made by my wife

So do you think you could go back to normal if I asked?

No, you can go back to it if you like but I'm not going to stop, and you can't ask me to.

My wife discussing being in an open marriage one day. She likes being a hot wife.


Why do you like being a hot wife?

Its powerful and sexy and naughty and makes me feel in control.


I had a sexy thought but I'm too shy to say.

Tell me!

Imagine how naughty it would be if I bought you that underwear and you didn't let me see you in it until you had worn it for him...

I knew you would say that.


Because I'd already thought of doing that myself!


Hurry up and order the cock tube.


So we have it by January.


So I can lock you in it when I go to see him!

Thursday, 13 November 2014

The aftermath

Well they played last night. I'm in one country, while my wife is in another fucking her lover. She kindly sent me a couple of messages and pictures. I will share just a little...

Wearing knee socks and chilling as she waits for him

One swollen and well fucked pussy, and you cant see it but yes its full!

I was at work when I was sent these, one before, then the other 2 hours later. The second arrived as I was in  a bar having a beer with my colleagues. Had to go to the toilet so I had the privacy to have a good look. I was hard in seconds, and had to touch myself (but not cum).

Texts straight after  (excluding a few normal life ones)
Me> Oh God so sexy! Did you have fun?
Her> Yeah ;)
Me> Did he cum in you?
Her> Yeah...xx
Her> Feeling naughty now!

and later
Me> tell me something you really enjoyed?
Her> Giving him a sloppy BJ :)

Imagine getting these while at work... Concentration shot to pieces!

Something to remember you by

Dressed for a rooftop party, 11 stories, view over the city, and a night full of fun :)
Dress pulled up with no regard for decency!

Yes that is a six pack, yes I'm very proud of her! 

Tuesday, 11 November 2014

Him vs me

I haven't cum bareback in my wife for over a year, practical contraceptive reasons.

But tomorrow she is able to be fucked bareback, her new contraceptive start to kick in.

And guess who she is seeing tomorrow? Not me. Her lover will be the first man to cum in her pussy in over a year.

It's mostly chance and timing, but both she and I are enjoying the naughtiness of this. She was packing today to go and see him, stocking, black, suspenser belt, short skirt, sexy top, and high heels. Panties she might take off before she meets him, apparently. She hasn't decided.

I on the other hand, she won't let me see or touch her newly waxed pussy until she has been fucked. She keeps telling me it's for him not for me at the moment.

I'm aching horny, and she is (believe me) very wet. She showed me a picture she sent him of her pussy, visibly wet, and she had not even touched herself before taking this pic.

Wednesday, 22 October 2014

Goodbye my friend

No easy way to say this, no fluffy feel good sentiments, no great plan. A good friend has just died unexpectedly, no illness nor known reason. An easy going, calm and deliciously eccentric woman, an extra-ordinary domme. She could put someone at ease better than almost anyone I know. I've performed with her, sung to her, been beaten raw by her. She has played with friends whose experience of it was delightful.

Sorry I can't sing to you again like you wanted.

I will miss you, your husband will miss you. This is to your memory C. Won't forget you. One last cigarette together :)


Saturday, 6 September 2014

Flock of blonds

Flock of blonds

At a recent dinner party Sandy and I were invited to we found ourselves after dinner with a small group of kinky friends and a need to have fun. I suggested we crack out some ropes, I've been finding myself with itchy rope fingers a lot in the last few months. This suggestion was well received and not long after I and another girl were tying her friend to a chair, thoroughly immobilized her, and proceeded to torture her in various ways for the better part of an hour. I had one leg roped with each toe separated and the rope tied back to her knee, so I could alternately tickle her feet and pull the ropes painfully back between her toes making her feet arch and the sensitive inner spaces burn on the weave of the hemp. With a hand over her mouth to quiet her as her friend whipped her thighs and tortured her nipples. We were having a good laugh, although our poor victim who was on the receiving end of one of the world's nastiest tiny whips was rather vocal about her own 'enjoyment' hehe.

We finished her of with a long session of bastinado and inner thigh spanking, then easing off and bringing her down gently with hugs and soft caresses. She was making the most delicious sounds going from pain to complete endorphin induced calm with our hands gently stroking her skin and her face hugged against her friend's chest.

She recovered fairly quickly, after about 10 minutes I saw a quick look pass between her and her friend, and suddenly they jumped on my legs with the now uncoiled rope and started to wrap my ankles. I happen to know her friend has been itching to have me in her power and wrapped in her rope so I wasn't too surprised. I gave them a minute to get a few coils on then started to try and escape. No surprise there but one of their male friends dived in to help hold me down which gave me someone to fight against with whom I could use my full strength. Well that was fun, by the time I was in a full TK the ropes were on extra tight. I had serious rope marks and bruises the next few days.

At this point I was topless and Sandy had joined in with a big grin on her face. Her domme mojo is coming back these days and she knows me well.

There I was with three very pretty girls completely helpless, and I had no choice but to take whatever they dished out. For probably 2 hours I was whipped and spanked. I recall one girl sitting on my face and mostly controlling my breathing with her body as the other two, one was Sandy, tickled me mercilessly, my cries lost in the softness pressed on my mouth. Sandy loves to torture my nipples, I have no recollection of how she did it but for two days after they were sensitive and bruised, something she took full advantage of. I also remember her trampling me, her sexy heels grinding into my body as her friend helped her balance, the point of her heel being dragged over my nipple and ground into it. Then her shoe pushed into my mouth making me suck the tip and running the sole over my tongue, forcing my mouth open. She slipped off her shoes and pushed her foot deep into my mouth, forcing them in with no great care and lots of enjoyment. She started doing that a couple of years ago and really gets off on forcing all her toes and part of her foot into my mouth, then grinding it over my face. She has really sexy feet, and lying bound and unable to resist with her foot filling my mouth and two other girls doing good knows what to me, well it was delicious. I still can't believe she made me lick her shoes and even part of the sole, she must have been feeling very wicked as she would normally worry about dirt and be put off by it.

What man wouldn't enjoy being the plaything of three gorgeous girls, all with matching blond hair and wicked expressions.

I remember coming down lying with my head on my friend's lap as she caressed my face and breathed sensually into mine, the heat rising from between her legs against the back of my neck. Sandy smiling at me and holding my hand, my whole being deeply relaxed.

Friday, 5 September 2014


'I need you', he groaned.

She smiled, the attention warming her. 'What do you need sweetheart?', she asked.

'You!' he continued quickly, 'Your lips. I need to kiss you.'

He looked hungry, hard to control, and she felt her own need responding. 'Sorry sweetie, only my feet, for now'. The words tasted good.

She melted into her seat as he slowly knelt, head bent, his lips warm against her toes.

Saturday, 26 July 2014


Tonight after a week of not cumming, she lay on the bed writing emails with my face in her ass. Kissing her little thong and ass cheeks. She said my face felt nice there.

After a good half hour she teased me to dripping, edged me a few times, then made me kneel at the end of the bed and watch her masturbate. Four times. I had to kneel and was sharply ordered not to approach or touch her. Begging to taste her was refused. And when I touched myself she quickly and sharply ordered me not to but in fact to put my hands behind my back and keep them there. Apparently I look sexy like that.

Occasionally she would tease me with her foot. And her second orgasm came on rather suddenly a few seconds after she forced her foot into my mouth. Think it turned her on!

She told me after she likes being mean to me, enjoyed the feel of her hand and seeing me doing what I was told pleased her.


Thursday, 10 July 2014

Ropey bondage and a columbian band

Connection? Only that they happen on the same night.

Ive spent the night in a rope dojo practicing and being practiced on. Rope skills are coming on, which is to say the arent totally rubbish anymore. But one hour there shows me how much I have yet to learn! I do however have a good friend and deliciously responsive rope bunny.

As if that was not cool enough, on arriving home late at night I hear loud and very cool music from the building opposite. Turns out there is a live columbian band playing, and I was invited to join them. So  there I was till after midnight with a beer, cigarette (indoors natch!) and the coolest music playing. This is the seedy underbelly of life, just how I love it!

Sunday, 29 June 2014

Lots of changes - will I ever get time to write about them?

Shock life change
  1. I no longer live in the UK, I now live in Switzerland. Hmm but my German is hella rusty! 
  2. I've started my own business. 
  3. I've been doing enough rope practice that once in a while people actually ask me for advice. Now thats truly shocking. 
  4. Sandy has found that the reason for her low sex drive is very low testosterone levels. Doctors (after months of pushing to find the right practice) have now prescribed her a hormone cocktail to stabilise her hormone levels. So far so good but its only the first 2 weeks on it.

Shock changes that have not happened
  1. We have not gone vanilla 
  2. See number 1

Things to write about, if only I find time
  1. Party on a kinky ship in Germany. Now that was fuck loads of fun!
  2. Cigarette play, the new black!
  3. Performing a floor show at a Vanilla venue with a good Domme friend.