Monday, 12 December 2011

What a mess

Sandy had a conversation with her lover. Long and short of it is that his feelings are so strong for her he doesnt think he can strike a balance. As such he thinks its better he ends it before our marriage is affected.

Unfortunately he has been badly hurt himself and he was having a tough time even before this. Sandy is gutted, she really did feel for the guy. I feel like a cad for precipitating the whole thing and messing things up. We needed and asked for more space but somehow that has become a damnable mess.

You would think most men would jump at a low friction fun and friendship type affair! Thats two out of two who have fallen too deeply for Sandy, asked for too much, and as such its gone awry.

7 comments:

Tallestrina said...

Sorry to read that its all gone pear-shaped for you guys. Maybe the key is to always have 2-5 lovers at a time, like others have, to avoid getting immersed in one lover??

MyKey said...

Lol a nice idea but finding one is hard enough! Also sandy prefers more than sex, friendship too.

MyKey said...

Also Sandy doesn't look for partners, she happened on these guys and liked them

bdenied said...

The problem with other guys who can not handle polygamy is that they are aholes even if they make good bed partners for our wives

Richie said...

Most men just don't get it, and sometimes it's both sides that fall into the pitfalls. I'm in the adult business so I see and hear about it quite a bit. Good luck to you!

Married Domme said...

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