Bdenied and S asked a few questions that I'd like to answer. Thanks for the interest!
Bdenied first as it's the easier question. I don't know, nor does sandy. There was a time the answer was unequivocally me. Now I think it's even, or maybe even. Skewed to sandy. Certainly she didn't need this break, whereas I really appreciated it. We started d/s again yesterday after one last, fantastic lovemaking. A long hard fuck. The smile on her face wen she started was fantastic. She was a bit shy about it but admitted she preferred it this way as it felt 'right'. That evening she merrily danced to the wardrobe to get her riding crop and tan my ass. I think this time at least I would say her. i would turn the question around, which of you or mrs bd likes it more?
How did we get started? Its the usual story this. I was kinky and have been since I was about twelve. Sandy was repressed, very, but liked sex and was openminded. Soon after we met I started to introduce kink, tying her up, shaving her etc. A few years later we started going to fetish clubs and we started playing with tease and denial, both ways. She was very repressed and took a long time to admit her desires, for a while I thought I had read her wrong. If you read earlier parts of the blog you will get more of this. Finally about 2.5 years ago we
Switched (see this link) and found that she is actually much happier as the Dom, even though she always claimed not. We've never really looked back, although we swap in bed once in a while.
Kinkiest thing we've done? Its either a mmf threesome, or something we did on holiday that I still need to write about. She peed into a glass the night before and refrigerated it. The next morning I was made to drink it all instead of my morning coffee. I've drank from her before but only a few gulps as she peed in my mouth. This felt a whole lot different, not pleasant and very much pushed my limits. Of course that's part of the fun having limits pushed, and she wants to do it again. Luckily it pushed her limits too so won't be too often. Something else you might like is this little date.
I liked sleeping in panties too!
What are our limits? I have very few. For example Scat, and anything involving damage to my real life. I would even consider a branding, something an old Domme wanted me to do. Sandy has more limits though far fewer then she used too. Her biggest is that she does not want to involve another man in our play, least not yet. She loves the cuckold fantasy though almost as much as me, its probably her favorite, always gets her very hot and wet.
In conclusion we always gravitate back to kink too. In sandy's words, vanilla is boring, this is much more fun.