Sandy and i are having a vanilla break before my piercing happens. I asked for a week off. She agreed kindly, it's good to have a change of scene now and then. She fully admits she doesn't need it though.
But damn it's hard. We've almost forgotten how to have sex without being kinky, especially her. She keeps wanting to spank me or pinch my nipples. Not taking dirty is tricky. We both keep almost slipping up! Even how we interact during the day is a touch different, like we are playing at being vanilla! I can't imagine we would ever live this way permanently.
It's been lovely though. We've made love twice. I missed it so much the last couple of years that I've asked for a small extension of our week. We will make love again, but soon enough our need for d/s will reassert itself. Sandy could switch back already, I need a bit more. She has enjoyed lovemaking but doesn't need it to feel intimate like I do.
And I have masturbated every damn day. I feel well and truly drained. It's like a relaxing holiday.