tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post73301332321274775..comments2023-10-30T07:43:04.640+00:00Comments on Well Outside Vanilla!: Is the third man a cuck?MyKeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02225868106939211859noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-40132477336705539712010-10-02T10:08:19.192+01:002010-10-02T10:08:19.192+01:00I dont fully agree with Mrs Claudia, fundamentally...I dont fully agree with Mrs Claudia, fundamentally its about the couple but I think that feelings between domme and the other man are stronger than she implies, even if its not love. As Mistress M says even love can develop, and given luck and judgement handled. I think that we all agree to a point though, the marriage is the primary relationship and if its harmed by the third person then the marriage is prioritised. <br /><br />For me I draw the line at love, thats where I begin to feel negative emotions. I do mean love though, not infatuation, loving friendship or similar. As long as I know I am first in her heart and will remain so the rest is negotiable.MyKeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02225868106939211859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-80254458562891276932010-10-02T01:33:25.490+01:002010-10-02T01:33:25.490+01:00MK,
In a lot of ways I agree with Mrs. Claudia. ...MK,<br /><br />In a lot of ways I agree with Mrs. Claudia. It is best to think of the third man as an enhancement to the primary relationship.<br /><br />That said, it is certainly possible for the 3rd person to fall in love, and possible for her to fall in love with him. I don't think that must result in an end to things, but it does complicate things a good deal, and increases the risks.<br /><br />When I first began this particular bit of femdom, I was very worried about falling in love with the 'extra' man. I've experienced that, and I no longer worry about it. I learned to handle it, as did everyone else.<br /><br />The fundamental rule, stated well by Mrs. Claudia is that everyone must be 100% certain that 'she' will never be leaving her husband for 'her other man.'<br /><br />MMilliscenthttp://www.milliscent.com/blog/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-72143621520358493942010-10-01T21:35:26.708+01:002010-10-01T21:35:26.708+01:00http://mrsclaudia.blogspot.com
"For me Cucko...http://mrsclaudia.blogspot.com<br /><br />"For me Cuckolding has absolutely nothing to do with anyone but the Domme and sub. The third person is strictly a tool, just like a chastity belt or rope is a tool. It is an object the Domme uses to help the submissive become more submissive to her. Not that I do not take into consideration the feelings of the third person, I do. I just make it clear to them that the main purpose of their being with me is to assist in making my sub more submissive. I will not be falling in love with then and leaving my husband for them. They will not become a slave to me. They are strictly a fun toy I will be playing with and putting back when I am done with it."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com