tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post1499548301725627546..comments2023-10-30T07:43:04.640+00:00Comments on Well Outside Vanilla!: How hard is an emotionally open marriage?MyKeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02225868106939211859noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-27307799592696246692011-12-12T22:53:02.781+00:002011-12-12T22:53:02.781+00:00Lol! real time blogging. Twitter has nothing on th...Lol! real time blogging. Twitter has nothing on this. <br /><br />Yeah it sure is hard. If you guys find it so after so much experience it really must be. Like you say 20 years (17 for us) and shared experience makes a close unit. Fitting in<br />Must be hard for them too!MyKeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02225868106939211859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-82381749802571380372011-12-12T22:05:26.815+00:002011-12-12T22:05:26.815+00:00Hi Mykey,
And, hey, I'm responding in real ti...Hi Mykey,<br /><br />And, hey, I'm responding in real time or thereabouts. <br /><br />Finding a third is exponentially more difficult than forming a couple as far as I can tell. Em and I have been together for twenty years and we still have great times together. How likely is it that someone will come along and fit right in? We're not a club, we're a family.<br /><br />Best,<br /><br />scott<br />Mrs. Kelly's PlayhouseEmma Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482090452557045055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-18181399695648901022011-12-12T20:58:09.901+00:002011-12-12T20:58:09.901+00:00Hi Scott
I really must be careful not to blog in ...Hi Scott<br /><br />I really must be careful not to blog in real time when events are this up in the air. <br /><br />Sandy isnt as hung up on him as he is on her. She will bounce back, although she is sad. <br /><br />I met him tonight unexpectedly. He came round to talk about it. This is a good thing, it's better he faces up to my existence, realises I'm easygoing as long as my marriage isn't under pressure. I'm ok with this and he doesn't have to avoid my existence. We might salvage something from this, if not at least he will hopefully feel better about things. Sandy seems ok too but she hasn't as much emotion on the line as he does. <br /><br />Let's see what happens the next few days. <br /><br />We had learned with the last guy what to be careful of. it looked initially like this guy was a better fit. Only after it started did it become apparent that he shared that commonality. <br /><br />It's a soap opera!MyKeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02225868106939211859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-60351265150790309932011-12-12T20:36:12.476+00:002011-12-12T20:36:12.476+00:00Hi Mykey,
Sorry it got so messy. Em and I have ne...Hi Mykey,<br /><br />Sorry it got so messy. Em and I have never had a situation where she got so stuck on a guy that it became a problem. We've had two guys that went way over the top in their expectations way too soon and Em's feelings were not in accord with theirs.<br /><br />It's too bad that Sandy feels so bad. Hope she bounces back soon. Perhaps you both can find some commonality in the profiles of the guys who you've had difficulty with and avoid those potential problems in the future.<br /><br />Best,<br /><br />scott<br />Mrs. Kelly's PlayhouseEmma Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482090452557045055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-39572189062765110232011-12-12T20:35:10.914+00:002011-12-12T20:35:10.914+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Emma Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482090452557045055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-22165581718662668412011-12-12T15:05:42.766+00:002011-12-12T15:05:42.766+00:00Hi Nuts
Yeah jealousy is an issue. Even for someon...Hi Nuts<br />Yeah jealousy is an issue. Even for someone who isnt the jealous type like me!<br /><br />Hi Grey Owl, Locked husband. I agree. Its what we tried. Will put out an update but its messy.<br /><br />Hi Scott.<br />We probably wont close the marriage but it may be a long time before Sandy wants to try this again!MyKeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02225868106939211859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-58828931239746689242011-12-12T02:24:39.964+00:002011-12-12T02:24:39.964+00:00Hi Mykey,
Keeping it balanced is hard... You both...Hi Mykey,<br /><br />Keeping it balanced is hard... You both will make mistakes and have to work at it. Sandy's right about fun. It should be fun or, rather, erotic. Playing on the edge demands being deep in uncharted territory which can be scary. <br /><br />This guy needs to get it straight or else you should move on and find someone else. We've had a couple of uncomfortable moments with guys that didn't understand what we were going for with a cuckold marriage.<br /><br />Just because things are a little rough at the moment doesn't mean that you have to give up the experiment though it might. Your call, that is you and Sandy.<br /><br />My guess is that once things settle down you both will feel the itch again. The genii is out of the bottle. <br /><br />Best,<br /><br />scott<br />Mrs. Kelly's PlayhouseEmma Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482090452557045055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-26624758410577762152011-12-11T23:25:52.324+00:002011-12-11T23:25:52.324+00:00That's not cool. If he doesn't "get ...That's not cool. If he doesn't "get it", then he deserves the boot!Locked Husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00066862164624960129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-89911237323751467802011-12-11T23:08:28.173+00:002011-12-11T23:08:28.173+00:00Ouch... sounds like he has lost his way and exceed...Ouch... sounds like he has lost his way and exceeded his role to provide her the pleasure you both expected. <br /><br /> Time for a break!<br /><br />Take some time off and enjoy the holidays without any contact and re-assess expectations.Grey Owlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02121079678753074066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7561034721215189211.post-40648379130699560652011-12-11T21:21:23.814+00:002011-12-11T21:21:23.814+00:00Sorry that was me...didn't mean to be anonymou...Sorry that was me...didn't mean to be anonymous.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com